If you want to take total surrender from a concept to a reality, fifty Shades of Grey Sweet Anticipation Spreader Bar with Cuffs is the way to do it. It’s designed to keep your legs (or arms) held wide apart, creating a feeling of vulnerability that you just can't get with standard cuffs alone. It is high-impact, but surprisingly easy to set up.

The bar is solid and sturdy, ensuring that once you’re clipped in, your legs aren't going anywhere. It forces a specific position that makes every other sensation feel way more intense. Because your limbs are being held at an angle, comfort is a big deal. The included cuffs are lined with soft padding so they don't bite into your ankles while the bar is doing its job. Safety is huge with a bar. The cuffs attach with heavy duty lobster clips, meaning you can unhook someone in seconds if you need to. The bar is sleek and slim. When you’re done, it’s easy to slide under a bed or tuck into a closet it doesn't look like a piece of gym equipment.